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Amie McGraham's avatar

Thank you for sharing Lucia with us all. From the vintage cocktail glasses to her signature floralwear, you’ve captured her spirit and persona so well I feel as if I’ve met her.

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

That makes me very happy Amie, and what I was hoping for. Sharing her light keeps Lucia very present for me and my sister Paula 💕

Jamie Schler's avatar

Your beautiful story, thoughts and memories bring back the beauty and uniqueness of the brother I lost many years ago. We must keep telling these stories and sharing their brightness to the world. All the things they were and all the things they gave us, those immaterial things, are part of the magic of what made us us. Thank you for sharing this, dear Elizabeth, and bringing mine back up to the surface. May her memory forever be a blessing 💜

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Jamie, I remember Michael very well through the many stories, photos and recollections you have shared about him through the years. You have captured beautifully why these living memories are so very important. We are the magic of our collective memories and the people who shaped them.

Betty Williams's avatar

Oh Elizabeth! What a moving and gorgeous post about your sister and the relationship you enjoyed with her. I've never had a sister and have always been envious of those who do for all the reasons you write about here. Such a special bond you have with both of yours. And those trips!!

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Thank you so much Betty. This was really one straight from my heart. Funnily enough I just read a post yesterday from someone who is estranged from her sisters—it’s a reminder to never take for granted the binds we have.

Angela's avatar

Reading this beautiful tribute to Lucia shows how the love and memories you all shared continue to live on through you — it’s such a powerful reminder to hold close the time we have with the people who matter most. And I am grateful Nova Scotia made the cut of a few of the many places you visited together.

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Nova Scotia was one of our favourite trips—Cape Breton is one of the places I love most in the world. Hard to believe that was nearly 20 years ago!

Annada D. Rathi's avatar

What a BEAUTIFUL post in memory of your sister! Your sister really lived true to her name. And I absolutely loved seeing the pictures of you sisters. Such luminance. I have had a loss in my life and reaching a stage where you can smile in memory of the dear one is such a milestone. This post proves that, Elizabeth. Thank you for sharing this story with us.

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Thank you so much Annada. I am so glad that more people have gotten to know Lucia through this post.

One of the great gifts that Lucia’s loss gave me was how to give space to those who are grieving—the understanding that in simply asking, “How are you, really?”, we are giving the gift of space to breathe to the other person, to, for a moment, feel the sadness alongside the compassion we’re offering.

I wish you peace in your own journey of loss ❤️

Annada D. Rathi's avatar

So well put, thank you!

Flavor of Italy's avatar

Elizabeth, what a tender and loving tribute to your sister♥️

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Thank you dear Wendy—she is still a bright light in our lives ❤️

Flavor of Italy's avatar

It fills our soul to put on paper reflections on the special people in our lives who are no longer with us. It’s something we should all do more.

Rebecca Blackwell's avatar

Oh Elizabeth. This is so beautiful it took my breath away. Paragraph by paragraph, I fell a little bit in love with Lucia. Thank you for sharing her golden sparks with us. I think I caught a few.

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

That’s exactly what I was hoping for, Rebecca—she still shines so brightly for me and our family, and I want to continue to sprinkle her magic.

And this is what I meant when I said I was truly embracing the personal here ❤️.

Marla's avatar

This was so beautiful to read, and you left me wanting more! I miss her so much and it was so fulfilling to learn more about her life 🤍

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

She stays with us through the stories we tell about her and how much we keep her present in our lives ❤️

Paula's avatar

Liz, you encapsulated the essence of Lucia and tenderly weaved a beautiful tribute to our adored sister. She is a fixture in your daily life as she is in mine and that brings me comfort to think her spirit is still shining bright. Thank you for sharing her story; a story that will live on in our memories for as long as we live!

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

We are the keeper of Lucia's joyous light! I know that we will continue to honour her and she will be by our side when you and I travel together next. Where to, big sister? Let's start planning! 💕

Sorya's avatar

Ouf, as we say in French. That was both heavy and light. I can feel your ever present loss as well as share in your affection for this special human. ♥️

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

She was a true life force—her absence is deep 💔

Sally Vargas's avatar

What a beautiful tribute to your sister. Thank you for sharing; so sad she left this world so soon.

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Thank you Sally 💕

Sheryl O'Connell's avatar

Beautiful piece honouring a beautiful sister - gone too soon.

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Thank you Sheryl—it gives me joy to share her story and memories 💕

Jenn Sharp's avatar

Thank you my friend. This story of your beloved sister brought tears to my eyes. What an amazing person. I wish I could have known her. My kind of lady. 🥂💗

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Jenn, you would have ADORED Lucia and she you 💕

Jenn Sharp's avatar

I knew this from the first bit of prose…🥰. Miss you my friend. Hope you are recovering well. 💗

Barbara Ellen McMahon's avatar

What a beautiful tribute to your sister. She sounds like a truly lovely person. I'm so sorry you had to say goodbye.

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Thank you Barb. I’m reminded of the Joni Mitchell lyric—“Don’t it always seem to go and you don’t know what you’ve got til it’s gone.” Hold your dear ones close ❤️

Lolly Martyn's avatar

What a telling and what a smile! But really all you sisters have gorgeous smiles and a happy joy emanating. Thank you for sharing about Lucia and the krack bars! ❤️

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Thank you Lolly! I promise the sardine rillettes are coming 😊

Wayne Leadbeater's avatar

Elizabeth, thank you for sharing this very touching and personal tribute to your beloved sister Lucia. There is something so special and forever bonding about the love we have for our siblings, and your account was the deepest of all for your sister. It is a poignant reminder to embrace our siblings, our family and our friends with love and appreciation everyday, and your tribute to Lucia tells us what a beautiful and remarkable gift she was to you in life.

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Wayne, so beautifully said and I couldn’t agree more. Lucia was a gift that I will always cherish.