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Lisa McLean's avatar

Looking without seeing, is a curse of these times.

Excellent piece Elizabeth.

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

It’s such an easy trap to fall into, isn’t it? Using slowness as a life lens works in so many moments, I think.

Giovanna Solimando's avatar

Lovely piece, Elizabeth. You might enjoy reading about contemplative photography / Miksang, and also mindful photography (search Look Again by Ruth Davey). It’s one of the best things about photography for me — it allows me to notice things I would otherwise overlook. I usually practice it with food and plants, but it’s definitely made me notice everyday things more too.

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Thanks so much for the recommendations, Giovanna. I’m always amazed at what our eyes don’t take in when we take a photograph. It’s only when we look at the captured shot that we really notice the details. I will definitely look up both the book and the practice. No wonder your photos rae so riveting! 💕

Amela Marin's avatar

Inspiring as always, Elizabeth. Richard is a gem that every arts organisation wants. Where was he when I needed someone like him? It's so interesting how it takes time to recongise our own gifts. But also to acknowledge them even if everyone around us is pointing at them.

I saw Elif's piece and then did research into the painting. Although the point isn't in research but in looking/seeing. One year, frustrated by people taking photos of the paintings instead of looking at them, I took photos of people taking photos. Needless to say, both they and I were losers in that gallery arena.

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Trophy hunting for art has become a blood sport!

A few years ago we adopted a strategy when visiting places like the Met in NY or the Louvre (not something that happens often in the normal course to begin with). We use a museum map and focus on one section we haven’t seen fully—e.g., musical instruments or Ancient Near Eastern Art. We’ll never get through everything but at least we’re not fighting for a spot to sit and contemplate 💕

Amela Marin's avatar

That's a great strategy. You should trademark it.

Kalee Tilli's avatar

I am so happy that I follow your writing and get to benefit from your thoughtful pieces. And I have never been a fish stew person, but my husband loves it and now I may have to try this!

Flavor of Italy's avatar

Fish stew is a delightful alternative to a vegetable only or stew made with meat. It’s something I’ve been doing more recently and thoroughly enjoying.

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

I agree! It’s healthy and satisfying at the same time.

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Thank you Kalee—that really means a lot 💕. I’ve also been enjoying your posts and reflections; in many ways it seems like we’re exploring very similar ideas. I really do appreciate this wonderful Substack community!

Barbara Ellen McMahon's avatar

This is so beautiful, Elizabeth. Thank you!

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Thank you Barb! I appreciate your kind words 💕

Amie McGraham's avatar

This is just what I needed—I’m using it as a writing prompt to start each day this week. And your husband is a wonderful example!

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

That’s so great, Amie! If you have a chance, read Elif Shafak’s post that inspired this one. Lots of great thoughts on creativity. And she is a wonderful writer too—her book, The Island of Missing Trees, was a favourite in my book club this year.

Amie McGraham's avatar

I enjoyed the deeper dive—and that painting!

Shell Plant's avatar

Well, Richard sounds just wonderful Elizabeth! I am glad he realized his super powers. And Jan is right, these are absolute words to savour. ❤️

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Thank you Shell—I’m pretty lucky, that’s for sure 💕

I love having you as a Monday morning reader!

Jan's avatar

I’m going to have to chew on that (and I don’t mean the fish soup), to take in all of what can be gained by savouring your words. I think I’ll start by asking, “What am I missing?”

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

The fish soup is definitely not for you, but I hope the words inspire 🥰